Monday, February 12, 2018
Friday, February 9, 2018
Parshas Mishpatim Messages 5778
Parshas Mishpatim:
These Divrei Torah are dedicated l'Zechus Refuah Shleimah mi'heira for the Vizhnitzer Rebbe of Monsey shlit"a, HARAV MORDECHAI BEN MARGULIA.
The Sages Say:
‘And he [Moshe Rabbeinu] took the Book of the Covenant [see Rashi HaKadosh], and he read it in the ears of the People, and they said, “All that Hashem spoke we will do and we will listen [to] (נעשה ונשמע)’ (Shemos 24:7)
Rabbi Simai taught: At the time that Bnei Yisroel [answered and] put ‘Naaseh -- We will do’ before ‘Nishma -- We will listen’ [beautifully saying that they would listen to Hashem before they even heard what Commandments He was giving], 600,000 Ministering Angels came down and tied to each Jew two crowns; one corresponding to Naaseh and one corresponding to Nishma.
But when the Jews sinned [with the Golden Calf], 1,200,000 Angels descended and removed the crowns…
Reish Lakish said: In the future, HaKadosh Baruch Hu will return them [the crowns] to us, as it says (Yeshayahu 35:10 -- translation following Rashi), ‘And the redeemed of Hashem shall return, and they shall come to Tziyon with song, and joy of [days of] old upon their heads…’ The joy that [they had] in [days of] old will [again] be upon their heads.
(Gemara Shabbos 88a)
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A Helpful Hint:
‘מכה איש ומת מות יומת -- One who strikes a man [or any person] and he [the person struck] dies, shall surely be put to death’ (Shemos 21:12)
In the Hebrew text, most of the words in the whole verse are related to the word מת (death). This alludes to us just how bad hitting a fellow Jew (without very good reason) is…
(Tal U’Matar)
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A “Lamdanishe” Insight:
‘And these are the Laws [המשפטים] that you shall place before them. If you will buy a Hebrew slave…’ (Shemos 21:1-2)
The question is often raised; what is the significance of the fact that right after the giving of the Aseres HaDibros (Ten Commandments), the Torah begins discussing… laws of the Eved Ivri (Jewish slave), and laws of theft and damages? Wouldn’t we expect it to be more “spiritual” topics, so to speak? And also, why specifically is the law of the Eved Ivri first of all the important Laws in this Parsha?
B’Ezras Hashem I want to bring some answers here:
1) --- Chasam Sofer {HaRav Moshe Sofer zt”l}: Rashi HaKadosh (21:2) explains from Mechilta that this person -- the future Eved Ivri -- stole money and didn’t have enough money to pay back the victim, so the court sold him into slavery.
By way of analogy: The father of a sick child will always be thinking about that child. He thinks about this child -- in a sense more than all of his other children.
So too here: Hashem is our Father. He is intensely concerned about this child who listened to their Yetzer Hara (Evil Inclination) and stole. It’s almost like Hashem says, “I need to deal with him first. He needs help.” Therefore, immediately after Matan Torah (the Giving of the Torah), the Torah discusses the thief, and what can be done to help him repent and become a righteous person. (Brought in Meoros HaParsha).
2) --- HaRav Shlomo Yosef Zevin zt”l (in LaTorah V’LaMoadim): The first word of this Parsha is ‘ואלה -- And these’. And Rashi HaKadosh brings from Mechilta that wherever it says ‘ואלה -- And these’; it adds onto [i.e. is very connected to] what came before. Just as what came before [the Ten Commandments] were from Sinai; he quotes from Midrash Tanchuma, so too these Commandments [in our Parsha] are from Sinai.
Explains Rav Zevin zt”l: Mishpatim are the organized Statutes governing behavior between a person and their fellow (‘bein adam la’chaveiro’): And the nations of the world also have set laws. But the difference between our Laws -- the Torah -- and theirs, is in the little letter ו (Vav) at the beginning of this Parsha; the letter Vav that adds on to what came before. Because with us, even the Laws between people all came from Hashem at Sinai [of course all Commandments did]; but with them, their rules are (usually) man-made things to better society.
These societal and man-made laws of theirs, though, don’t stand in the face of the Yetzer Hara: When there is any sort of test, etc. people can break them and make all kinds of excuses. The Torah’s Laws, however, are the Commandments of Hashem: And this gives to them steady strength and firmness [that can stand up to bad desires, etc.]. Just like the Torah is eternal; so too the Mishpatim of the Torah are eternal… (See Sefer Divrei Tzaddikim on this for a very similar thing).
3) --- HaRav Nosson Scherman shlit”a: The juxtaposition of this Sidrah (dealing primarily with civil and tort law) with the Ten Commandments and the laws of the Altar provide a startling insight into Judaism. To G-d, there is no realm of “religion” in the colloquial sense of the word. Most people think of religion as a matter of ritual and spirituality. Western man differentiates between church and State. The Torah knows no such distinction. To the contrary, all areas of life are intertwined and holiness derives from halachically correct business dealings no less than from piety in matters of ritual. (The Stone Edition Chumash).
4) --- The Beis Yisroel {the fifth Gerrer Rebbe -- Rebbe Yisroel Alter zt”l}: As noted above, the letter ‘Vav’ at the beginning of this Parsha; ‘ואלה המשפטים’ -- ‘And these are the Mishpatim…’ connects Mishpatim, which discusses legal monetary matters, with the previous Parsha of Yisro and the Receiving of the Torah.
This relates to the Mishnah, “One who accepts upon himself the yoke of the Kingdom of Heaven, the yoke of worldly matters [i.e. making a livelihood] is removed from him” (Avos 3:5). (Bostoner Torah Insights).
5) --- Tal U’Matar: Let’s start out with three points: #1, What is a slave? Someone who has to do someone else’s will instead of theirs. They have less Mitzvos, and they also have to take more time working for their human master -- and have less time to serve the Real Master. #2, The Sages tell us that this person who was a Jewish Slave had to become one because they stole and could not pay back (see above). And #3, As I have quoted many times, the Rambam zt”l in Hilchos Yesodei HaTorah tells us that everyone actually wants to do what Hashem says. That is what we want. But our Yetzer Hara tries to enslave us to himself and make us do what he wants instead, (may Hashem save us all).
Now let’s put these all together: In the first Commandment of this Parsha, Hashem wants to teach us what freedom is: He wants to let us know that we have the choice to be free -- to do what is right. But, on the other hand, to have to listen to a human being (including our own body and materiality) instead of Hashem, Chas V’Shalom, is being a slave.
And there is another thing we can infer from it: Being a slave is not exactly the most fun thing, often. Probably not the best life. But this person had to become a slave because they enslaved themselves to their Yetzer Hara and stole. This should serve as a lesson for us that bad things come out of sins. You think you’re going to get great stuff and feel good if, Chas V’Shalom, you satisfy the will of your Yetzer Hara? No; on the contrary; you will not feel good, and in fact, you will suffer.
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Chassidishe Vort:
‘You shall stay far away from a false word -- מדבר שקר תרחק’ (Shemos 23:7)
The Rebbe Reb Zusha zt”l explains to us that there is another way we can read the above verse: ‘From a false word, you will go far away’ -- i.e. if, Chas V’Shalom we say a false thing, it pushes us some away from Hashem. [We must be careful in this regard…]
(Heard from one of my Rebbeim shlit”a)
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Mussar Message:
‘If you will see the donkey of your enemy crouching under its burden, and you would stop [yourself] from helping him?! You shall surely help with him [the owner]!’ (Shemos 23:5)
There is a very big lesson inherent in this verse: If we go back to Parshas Vayechi, when Yaakov Avinu blessed his sons before he died, we see that he blessed Yissachar that he is a strong-boned donkey. And Rashi HaKadosh brought from Midrash Bereishis Rabbah that this means that he will carry the Yoke of Torah just like a donkey carries a burden.
Connecting this idea to our verse, we can see the lesson: The Torah discusses in this case ‘the donkey of someone you hate crouching under its burden’. This can allude to the carrying the Yoke of Torah, i.e. they are, Rachmana Litzlan, having trouble with their carrying it -- like it says ‘crouching under its burden’. And the Torah teaches us that even if we hate this person, if they are having trouble with their Torah, such as having trouble with keeping the Commandments or the like, we must help them! Even if we hate them because they do bad things (see the Gemara), then all the more so should we help them to do better things!
A proof for this is that the Torah says that we have to ‘help with him’. Because if this person refuses, Chas V’Shalom, to let you help them, then how will you help them? We are supposed to help with the person, because if they won’t try to pick themselves back up with us, then we can barely help at all (see Gemara Bava Metzia 32b -- early on the page). It is up to people whether they want to become a better person, but we should help them do it…
Different methods are needed for different situations, though: This is hinted to in the double usage ‘You shall surely help -- עזב תעזב’. And we need to know and figure out, with Hashem’s Help, how to help each individual person according to what kind of a person they are. Based on that, we can know what kind of method to use to bring them closer to Hashem and His Torah.
(Tal U’Matar)
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Chazak V’ematz:
‘And these are the Laws that you shall place before them.’ (Shemos 21:1)
The Kalever Rebbe of Williamsburg {Rebbe Moshe Taub shlit”a} quotes an idea from his ancestor, Rebbe Tzvi Elimelech of Dinov zt”l, and comes out with the concept that through Torah study does one attain attachment to holiness.
And it is possible, he says, that we could say that this is the idea we find in Rashi on the first verse of our Parsha: ‘And these are the Laws that you shall place before them,’; this is why this Parsha of civil laws, at the beginning of Parshas Mishpatim, is right after the Parsha of the Altar at the end of Parshas Yisro (right before this); in order to teach us that the Sanhedrin was near to the Altar in the very same Beis HaMikdash complex. However the reason for this is not explained clearly here.
We could probably offer our own suggestion, proposes Rav Taub shlit”a, that the Altar served to offer Sacrifices, including those which came to atone for sin. Before offering the Sacrifices, the Kohanim had to awaken the person bringing the offering to do Teshuva. This could be the reason the Sanhedrin was next to the Altar; in order that the voice of the Torah study and ruling which came from there would sanctify and purify those who were bringing their Sacrifices, and inspire them to repent. Therefore, every Jew must participate in the Torah shiur daily, without any exceptions, even if they do not understand what is being said, as this bring the holiness of the Torah within a person, and through this he is worthy to all of the blessings written in the Holy Torah.
(Translated by Rebbe Yitzchok Kolakowski shlit”a)
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Maaseh B’Rabbi…
This Shabbos, the 25th of Shevat, is the yartzeit of HaRav Yisroel Salanter zt”l: It is related that the students of Rav Yisroel calculated that until Moshiach comes, his (Rav Yisroel’s) yartzeit will always be in the week of Parshas Mishpatim. And they explained that most of Rav Yisroel’s Mussar teachings were about Mishpatim, the laws of the Torah regarding monetary matters and things between a person and their fellow, therefore it is fitting that his yartzeit should always be in the week that we read about these rules.
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A prominent student of Rav Yisroel once invited him to the Shabbos night meal. The Rav told him that he didn’t accept any invitation unless he knew how things were run. The student assured him that everything was good; the kashrus standards were impeccable, the cook was a Jewish widow, and at the meal there were words of Torah and zemiros (songs) and the meal would last until late at night!
Rav Yisroel accepted the invitation -- but with one catch: The meal had to be shortened by a decent amount. The student agreed to this.
Shabbos evening arrived, and at the meal, things were very rushed. Courses were served one after another and everything was finished in a very short amount of time, and they were ready to say Birkas HaMazon.
At this point, the student basically asked Rav Yisroel why everything had to be rushed. Instead of replying, the Rav asked that the cook be brought in. When she came, he apologized and asked her forgiveness for rushing things and making her have to serve one course after another with no time to rest.
She replied that the Rav should be blessed, and if only he would be their guest every Shabbos! Because usually, the seudah (meal) lasted until a very late hour, and she would be very tired. But tonight, since things went quickly, she could go home early and rest!
Rav Yisroel now turned back to his student, and told him that that was the answer: True, his conduct at the Shabbos meals was praiseworthy -- with all the words of Torah and holy zemiros. But not at the expense of another person.
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A Gut Shabbos to all!
Thursday, February 8, 2018
PRAYERS NEEDED
Please pray and or say Tehillim for the Vizhnitzer Rebbe of Monsey shlit"a, HaRav Mordechai ben Margulia!
Tuesday, February 6, 2018
CHEAP TORAH TUTORING AVAILABLE
Shalom Aleichem everyone: For certain reasons, I want to begin tutoring -- mostly smaller children. If you or someone you know needs cheap tutoring (likely over Skype, phone, or something like that) for any children, please email aishkodesh611@gmail.com.
Kol Tuv all!
Monday, January 29, 2018
Sunday, January 28, 2018
Parshas Beshalach Messages 5778
Parshas Beshalach:
The Sages Say:
‘And Amalek came and waged war with Yisroel in Rephidim.’ (Shemos 17:8)
[Rashi HaKadosh brings from Mechilta and Gemara Sanhedrin 56b that we were given in Marah three Rules to learn and keep.] But when the Jews were in Rephidim, they loosened their grip from the Torah which they received in Marah, and as a punishment for this, Amalek (YM”S) came and waged war on them. Because for the sin of wasting time instead of learning Torah (bitul Torah), troubles come to the world.
(Mechilta; Gemara Bechoros; quoted by Rabbeinu Bachya zt”l)
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A Helpful Hint:
‘Then Moshe sang (lit. ‘then Moshe will sing’ -- אז ישיר משה)…’ (Shemos 15:1)
Our Rabbis said: From here [we see] a hint to the Techiyas HaMeisim (Revival of the Dead) from the Torah [i.e. because of the fact that אז ישיר משה is in the future tense, ‘then Moshe will sing’ ~~ Sifsei Chachamim HaShaleim].
(Mechilta; Gemara Sanhedrin 91b; brought by Rashi HaKadosh)
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A “Lamdanishe” Insight:
‘And it was when Paroah sent out the People [of Yisroel], and G-d did not lead them the way of the land of the Plishtim for it was close (see Rashi HaKadosh), for G-d said; “Lest the People will reconsider [leaving Egypt] when they see a war, and they will return to Egypt.”’ (Shemos 13:17)
Says Rabbeinu Bachya {ben Asher} zt”l: Rabbeinu Chananel zt”l writes that Hashem led them the way of the Wilderness to multiply His Signs and Wonders, because if He had led them the way of the land of the Plishtim -- the close one -- and He had put in their heart that He would give them permission to cross over the way of their land, and He did not delay them at all, it would have “only” been a “light” Sign. [It would have been a “less dangerous” way, in some manner]. And therefore, Hashem’s Wisdom dictated that they go in a circuitous manner by way of the Wilderness to make the great and many Signs -- the Mon, the Quail, and the bringing of Water out from the Rock [all of which would help them to achieve faith in Him]…
And know, Rabbeinu Bachya explains, that all the topics of Yisroel [the Jews] and their happenings in the Wilderness -- they were a complete test in order to make their Souls greater; the intellect of the levels of Bitachon (trust in Hashem), which is the root of Emunah (faith in Hashem), in order that they would be fit to receive the Torah: The Splitting of the Sea, the waters of Marah, the Mon -- which fell daily as much as was needed for each day, etc. All these things were a complete test, in order to root in their Souls the trait of Bitachon… for the trait of Bitachon is a great main thing (ikkar) and Foundation of the Torah.
(Originally, the Jews would have turned back if they had seen a war -- that, in a way, was a lack of faith in Hashem. With the proper trust in Him, however, they wouldn’t have been afraid.Hashem saw this in us, and He understood that He needed to lead us through the Wilderness in order to root Bitachon in our hearts.)
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Chassidishe Vort:
‘And they [the Jews] came to Marah, and they were not able to drink the water from Marah, because it was bitter (lit. ‘they were bitter’ -- כי מרים הם)…’ (Shemos 15:23)
There is a very famous Chassidishe Vort on this (usually quoted in the name of the Baal Shem Tov zt”l, but I have seen it in the name of the Kotkzer Rebbe -- Rebbe Menachem Mendel of Kotzk zt”l):
What does it mean that ‘they were bitter’? That the Jews were bitter -- that is why the waters tasted bitter. Because when a person is bitter, everything seems bitter to them…
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Mussar Message:
‘And the Bnei Yisroel went on dry land in the midst of the sea.’ (Shemos 15:19)
Says the Noam Elimelech {Rebbe Elimelech of Lizhensk zt”l}: People are inspired only when they see revealed [i.e. clear] Miracles. They don’t understand, though, that “nature” is itself one big Miracle in which we can regularly see the greatness of the Creator and be inspired from it.
However, when we see a clear Miracle, we begin to believe that also just in “natural and simple life” there is a Supervision and intervention from Above and wondrous Miracles occur, but we are just used to them and so we don’t notice them…
Explains the Rebbe Reb Meilech zt”l; this is what the Torah is saying (in the verse quoted above): ‘And the Bnei Yisroel’ -- since the Jews saw a clear and revealed Miracle, that they were walking on dry land in the middle of the sea, they came to an overall recognition that ‘[they] went on dry land in the midst of the sea’ -- that even when they are going on solid dry land, this is a wondrous Miracle, as if they are going in the middle of the sea…
(Quoted in Maayanah Shel Torah)
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Chazak V’ematz:
‘And the Bnei Yisroel were going out with a high hand.’ (Shemos 14:8)
In any and every trouble and difficult situation, we are not alone. Hashem is there with us. And not only that, but He stretches down His Hand, so to speak, waiting for us to just reach a bit upwards and “grab onto it,” and let Him help to pull us out.
So it was in Egypt -- a very challenging and harsh time, where the Jews had also sunken to a low level: Hashem never abandoned us. Just the opposite: He “stretched down His Hand” for us to grab onto. And indeed, as the verse tells us, we went out with a ‘high hand,’ i.e. we did reach upwards and grab Hashem’s outstretched Hand. And He pulled us out of Egypt.
(Tal U’Matar)
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Maaseh B’Rabbi…
‘For I am Hashem, your Healer.’ (Shemos 15:26)
A very ill chossid once came to Rebbe Mordechai of Neschiz zt”l: He had already consulted many doctors, but they hadn’t been able to help him -- and now he came to the the Rebbe for a blessing and advice. The Rebbe told him to go to a special doctor in the town of Anipoli. He would be able to cure him.
It was a long and harsh trip, but the chossid undertook it, and, Baruch Hashem, made it there safely. And now he began to ask the villagers about the special doctor who lived there. But they told him that they didn’t even have a doctor there! The ill chossid, very sad, journeyed back to the Rebbe, and told him what had transpired.
Then what do these people do, Rebbe Mordechai asked, if, Chas V’Shalom, someone would fall sick? The chossid replied that what could they do? They just would have to have faith in Hashem and ask Him to heal them.
This was exactly the thing which the Rebbe had wanted him to understand, and he told him that He (Hashem) is the doctor Whom he had been referring to. And He Who helps the people of Anipoli would heal him as well. And so it was.
(Related in Sippurei Chassidim)
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A Gut Voch to all!
Thursday, January 25, 2018
Amazing Shidduch Story!
The following story is related on the blog momof14:
Rav Kanievsky told him "The next time you meet a girl, talk to her about your scar on the date and tell her the story about what caused you to have this scar". He didn't understand what difference it would make by him telling his story since he knew that if the girl does not like his scar then it doesn't matter what caused it.
A 25 year old yeshiva bachur was still not married. Usually, yeshiva bachurim get married at ages 22, 23, not older than that. So a 25 year old boy is considered old if he is not married by then. This boy went out with girls and after the first date, none of the girls wanted to continue going out with him. He had a scar on his cheek that looked like a cut which didn't look so good to the eye. He was an amazing boy, good middos, Yiras Shamayim, he was a really great boy. But every girl would go out with him on a date, she would see his scar, and there would be no second date after that. Therefore, he got to the age of 25 and he was still not married. So he went to HaRav Chaim Kanievsky shlit"a and he tells him "Kvod HaRav I don't know what to do. I want to get married. My friends are all married and I am still in yeshiva." And he told him that he thinks that it's because of his scar.
One or two months passed by and a girl was suggested to him. He looked into her, and he hears that she is a very special girl with Yiras Shamayim, and exceptional middos. He asks what she looks like and he is told that she looks good. This made him feel worried because he prefers that she is not going to be so good-looking because he knew that if she was really beautiful then she definitely won't be interested in him. So he thought to himself "Maybe she doesn't look as good as people say; nobody ever says about another person that she doesn't look good even if she is not so attractive." So he decided to go out with her.
On the way to the date he was very nervous. He was hoping that she wasn't so good-looking. He was hoping that maybe something would come out of it. When he got there, he saw that not only did she look good, she looked stunning. She was gorgeous! He was very disappointed because he knew that a girl that looks like this would never want him. He went over to her and they started talking. He noticed her looking at his scar. As they were getting into a deeper conversation he saw how everything that he heard about her was really true. She had good middos, Yiras Shamayim, she was truly a special girl. As hard as it was for him, he decided that since Rav Kanievsky told him that he should tell his story about his scar then he is going to do it. So he told her "I am sure you realized the scar that I have on my cheek. Rav Kanievsky told me to tell my story about this scar on the first date so I am going to tell it to you."
He told her that 5 years ago, when he was 20 years old, he came back from Yeshiva in Jerusalem. He was learning in Mir Yeshiva and when he left it was late at night and it was very dark and deserted. All of a sudden, he heard a young Jewish lady screaming. He saw an Arab man running after her and trying to catch her.